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It may not feel like it just yet, but Spring is here!  Which means it’s time for Spring Cleaning!

I absolutely love this time of year and always look forward to the fresh, bright and uplifting energy of the season. When you take the time to do a little spring-cleaning, everything feels even better. The whole house feels lighter, cleaner, and brighter. Physical clutter creates mental clutter.  If you want more space to create a healthy, blissful and radiant life, it’s time to spring clean! More

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Post image for Book Selection: Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom

This is one of my favorite reference books for women’s health.

Dr. Christian Northrup is an obstetrician and gynecologist, with a complementary and holistic approach to health. She has written a number of books on women’s health and has appeared on the Oprah Winfrey show multiple times. She is a proponent of mind-body wellness and complementary medicine.

There are so many health issues that are unique to women and which are unfortunately increasing at significant rates. From infertility to miscarriages, cysts, endometriosis and certain female-specific cancers, it’s important to understand what is happening in our bodies and how to prevent and treat these conditions by addressing the factors that can contribute to them. This book covers all of these conditions in great detail and also provides an overview of our bodies, as well as strategies to create vibrant health.

Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom is an excellent resource in both prevention as well as management of existing conditions. Dr. Northrup explains the potential causes and contributing factors, as well as the conventional and complementary treatment options that are available, including diet, supplements and lifestyle strategies. She then takes it to another level by looking at the mind-body connection, and the role of emotions and our psychology on our body and health. More

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How to build a regular yoga practice

by Victoria Bailey on December 14, 2011

in Body & Beauty,Health & Nutrition

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I know so many people that would love to practice yoga, but can’t seem to make it work when it comes to fitting in into their routine. I can totally relate. After starting and stopping many times over the years, I’ve now been practicing consistently for 2 years, so I thought I’d share what has worked for me and hopefully you can apply it to your practice as well.

Here’s what I did to fit yoga into my life in a way that was practical and realistic:

1.  I started with baby steps
I started with just one day a week. While I didn’t think one day a week would produce dramatic results, I really wanted to incorporate something more mindful and calming into my life. In previous attempts, I always aimed for at least 3 classes per week, then I’d fall short, get discouraged and eventually give up. Ironically because I was actually meeting my goals this time, I was feeling good about it, rather than beating myself up for not doing enough. That created a positive momentum, and gradually led to more classes. So just start with one class. That’s it. No big monumental promises, sweeping resolutions.  See what happens.

2.  I let go of the gym
Let me just say, I still go to the gym regularly, so I’m not advocating giving up all other workouts in favor of yoga. The letting go was in my head. I realized that I was mentally addicted to the idea that when I was at the gym, I was getting a “real workout”. I was trying to maintain my regular workout schedule and add 3-4 yoga classes on top of it, and I simply couldn’t find the time. Little by little I would substitute a yoga class for a traditional workout and still felt great, actually better. I began listening to my body and doing what felt right.  Which meant sometimes more yoga and sometimes more gym. But I had to get over that initial belief that I was missing out on a better workout.  (Not all types of yoga provide the same physical challenge – see my post Why I Love Yoga to see what type of yoga might be best for you).

3.  I learned to ignore my ego
Nothing brings a consistent practice to an end faster than injuries. The lower back, wrists, and knees are the most common, followed by shoulders, hips and ankles. Why so many injuries from yoga? The main reasons are usually 1) incorrect form; and 2) moving into advanced poses too soon. We can get caught up in comparing ourselves to other people in the class, trying to “keep up”, and judging ourselves and our practice. It’s important to remember that the person beside you may have been practicing for 10 years, or maybe they don’t know what they’re doing or, perhaps they are creating injuries that will show up in a few years. The point is, you need to focus on where you are in your journey and what your body needs. ”How we show up on the mat, is how we show up in life.” So if you are competitive by nature and/or tend to be hard on yourself, this will show up in your practice. By being aware of it and observing yourself on the mat, you can prevent it from taking over your practice. Seek out teachers that correct form and are mindful of safety. You can also use blocks and modify poses. More

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Slow down to get what you want

by Victoria Bailey on August 7, 2010

in Life & Career

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Slow down and everything you are chasing will come around and catch you

I recently saw this quote and smiled. I have been on a path of slowing down for the last few months and have directly experienced the truth of this statement. Even though I continue to experience the miracles of this in my own life, I still find it one of the most difficult things to do.

I think for many of us, slowing down is so difficult because it implies being perceived as lazy, unmotivated and lacking ambition. Even more challenging is just the simple act of doing less. When we are busy, we don’t have time to think and reflect. Slowing down requires us to reconnect and create space for things to happen. That space can be scary.

As I considered what to write about this month, this seemed particularly timely given that August is an interesting time of year. On the one hand, it is very much a time for slowing down. The “lazy hazy days of summer” are the time when businesses slow down, families take vacations and the city feels quieter as everyone heads up North for the cottage. More

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Are you ready for change?

by Victoria Bailey on January 28, 2010

in Life & Career

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As a coach, I get to help people transform their lives.  I get such joy from seeing the physical and emotional transformation that takes place when my clients create the lifestyle and life they have imagined for themselves.  While I wish I could spread this feeling to everyone, the reality is that not everyone is ready for change. At least not in this present moment, and the present moment is all that matters.

I often meet individuals that inquire about my services or are curious about life coaching and seem genuinely interested working with me, and then they don’t call me back for months. Are they afraid of change? Perhaps. Are they procrastinating? Maybe. Are they ready to make a change? Probably not.

Here’s the thing. Fear will always exist. So will the list of reasons why this is not the best time in your life to do the thing you want to do. Until you are ready, you’re not ready. It’s as simple as that. Whether it’s changing your diet or starting an exercise routine, changing jobs or careers, moving to another country, or leaving the comfort and security of a familiar relationship; there is always going to be an aspect of fear and discomfort associated with making any type of significant change in your life. More

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